Archive for Fears
Choose To Be Happy; Under Any Situation!
Posted by: | CommentsIn my last post I was talking about the REAL PATHWAY to happiness. I found myself in this situation during the Christmas and New Year season. My happiness within was clearly put to the test big time and I did come out on top.
Let me explain a little history. My lovely husband, God bless him is on this kick of wanting to retire. I can really understand this, but one cannot get obsessed with something that isn’t going to happen for a few years and let it take away your daily happiness. After all it’s not like he is 65 years old. He has a little ways to go, yet. I do understand his wanting to retire and all that, but I refuse to let his fears destroy my happiness on a daily bases.
Secret To Happiness: Do I Have Low Self-Esteem Part 3
Posted by: | CommentsWhile you might already have a good indication that you are suffering from low self-esteem, it might be a good idea to explore this a little further. The more we explore our personality the closer we can be to choose happiness with all our choice we make in life. 
Take this simple quiz.
Personality Self-Esteem Assessment
Directions: Answer T if the statement is true for you. Answer F if the statement is false for you.
T F I am able to discuss my good points, skills, abilities, achievements and successes with others.
T F I assert myself with someone whom I believe is violating or ignoring my rights.
T F I am content with who I am, how I act, and what I do in life.
T F I am not bothered by feelings of insecurity or anxiety when I meet people for the first time.
T F My life is balanced between work, family life, social life, recreation/leisure and spiritual life.
T F I am aware of the roles I played in my family of origin and have usually been able to make these
behavior patterns work for me in my current life.
T F I am bonded with the significant others in my environment at home, work, school, at play, or in the
community.
T F I am able to perform the developmental tasks necessary to ensure my ongoing healthy self-esteem.
T F I am satisfied with my level of achievement at school, work, home, and in the community.
T F I am a good problem solver; my thinking is not clouded by irrational beliefs or fears.
T F I am willing to experience conflict, if necessary to protect my rights.
If you selected F for three or more of the preceding questions, you probably need to work at increasing your self-esteem, so you can find your happiness within. That’s what we’re here for! But that comes a little later!
There are many, many indicators that a person has low-self-esteem. Consider this list.
People with low self- esteem:
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Consider themselves lost, unworthy of being cared for




