Why is dating all about Sex?

sex3 Why is dating all about Sex?I just don’t get it, why are people jumping in bed with each other rather than getting to know each other?

When I was young and also after I got my divorce I had to really like someone and feel like the relationship was going somewhere, before that big leap.  What I am learning now is when a man takes you out on a date to dinner and a movie, you are suppose to pay him back with a roll in the hay.

Happiness can mean the difference between mediocrity and greatness

Wouldn’t it be nice to create a culture of excellence where everyone worked together for the happiness of each other?  Know I do not live in a dream world, but it is a thought and it is possible!

What it does take to build a world of excellence is a little more effort by everyone.  Mac Anderson and Sam Parker wrote this book called “212: the Extra Degree.” What is the concept of 212 degree?. ttwd Happiness can mean the difference between mediocrity and greatness

At 212 degrees…it boils.
And with boiling water, comes steam.
And stream can power a locomotive.
And, it’s that one extra degree that…
Makes all the difference.

Choose happiness with Happy Thoughts

In an average day it is estimated that we have around 60,000 thoughts.  Have you consciously wondered how many of your thoughts are happy thoughts?

Let’s face it happy people think more happy thoughts than unhappy people. It sure doesn’t take rocket science to figure that out.  Clearly when we think happy thoughts, we create our happiness within, which obviously leads to a happier out come in any situation.

Happy thoughts connect us and give confidence and courage to act, which in turn empowers us to believe.  Obviously is this going to help live our lives according to our hopes and dreams.

Secret To Happiness is Good Self-Esteem; Your Environment Part 10

Healthy self-esteem originates in the environment found in the:  family, school, peer group, work place, and community.  There are certain characteristics of your environment that need to be personally present in order for self-esteem to be fostered and grow.  This will certainly help with your happiness within.

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happy home creates happiness within

How Happy are You, in your life, RIGHT NOW?

Are you happy, but still have some emotions from the past that keeps you a little stuck?

When we can release emotions from the present or past that have us stuck we become happier.  The more we “Let Go” the happier we become.  We really begin to uncover our own secret to happiness and find happiness within.  I know the pain of those emotions from the past.  I’m a very happy positive person, but I’m human just like everyone else and there was some junk I was having trouble getting rid of until I came across “Happiness Now.”

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Find your happiness within

Let me tell you the story:  In 2008 my mother died and as it turns out I probably have the family from hell.  It is amazing what can come out in a time of crisis.  When my mother got to the point that she could no longer live in her own house by herself the crap came tumbling down.  My oldest sister was determined to get her hands on the money from the sale of my mother’s house.  My oldest brother was determined to keep her in the same town he lives in, but he wanted to just put her in a rest home and forget she was there.  One of my younger brothers who also was the executive of her will, because my parents had made a loan to him years ago in which he turned some stock over to them for the cash up front (they left the stock in his name and he had them pay the taxes on it I found out later).  He wanted to keep that money for himself rather than use it to take care of her and keep her in her house.  We won’t talk about the alcoholic sister I have that as no clue anymore about anything other than calling social services on me after I moved our mother into my house in another state.

Anyway to make a long story short, the oldest brother cleaned out her house and gave away all her stuff, so I never really got any of the precious little things of hers to remember her by.  All I have is those wonderful memories, she and I shared and the 5 months I did have her close to me.  He didn’t even show up for her funeral.  My oldest sister did split up the money from her house with everyone, even the brother that gave her stuff away and didn’t show up for her funeral.  And yes the younger brother did run of with about $100,000.00 that could have been used to take care of her in the way she would have loved to be taken care of.

After all this happen I was having a lot of trouble with choosing happiness, because I would get angry every time I thought of my mother, her happiness and those precious little things of hers that were just given way to anybody.  My emotions were getting in the way of happiness and it was clearly getting to be a big problem for me.

Then I came across the “Happiness  Now” course.  It is a course unlike ANYTHING I’ve ever seen before.  Its results absolutely blew me away.  It provided me with a simple, powerful, natural method of releasing the “BAD EMOTIONS” that I was holding on too.  Now I am back to happiness within for myself, And loving every minute of it.

Happiness Now teaches a simple system of guided “releasing”, bringing about profound benefits in ALL areas of your life – leading you toward ultimate, lasting happiness within.

It involves asking yourself a few simple questions and just watching your troublesome emotions drop away, right before your eyes.  If bad emotions are the only thing holding you back from finding your happiness within I highly recommend this course.

Does this sound like you?  Are you having trouble with past or present emotions?  Lack of money when everyone around you is doing great?  Fear for the future?  Do you find past experiences, fears and phobias holding you back, when you’d prefer to break through and enjoy more freedom and choice?  Would you like to master your emotions and uncover the ULTIMATE KEY to lasting happiness within?

I feel your pain, because I have been there and this course HAPPINESS NOW did a world of good for me.  If you are having these problems I do HIGHLY RECOMMEND this course.  Just check it out by clicking on the links or banner.

Thank you, that is my true story and if you have any comments I would appreciate them.  There is a survivor in all of us; we just have to find the right help sometimes.  I certainly did.

Debbie Dee

Choose Happiness, Not Flying Saucers or Balloons

Now really is a hoax going to help you find your happiness within? This is a good example of how screwed up people can be.  We want to be on TV and be recognized and are willing to make little children part of such a plan.  Least he could have done is made a better balloon with a smiley face. smiley face ballon 200x300 Choose Happiness, Not Flying Saucers or Balloons

I have to admit when my daughter called and told me to turn on the TV and I seen what was unfolding, the first thing I did is get down on my knees and say a prayer for this little 6 year old.  Evidently this little 6 year olds life was in danger.  How many of you out there were doing the same thing?

Choose To Be Happy by Opening Your mind To The Possibilities

Determination and belief are the starting points for happiness within.  They obviously open you to new opportunities to do and be anything you desire, and you only need a subconscious thought to plant the seed.  How do we do this?

The first and most important element to happiness within is to…

Open your Mind

It is very clearly that a closed mind seals off creative solutions and eliminates any possibility for new opportunities.  A closed mind keeps you where you are in life, where you always have been and will continue to be.  A closed mind creates:

The Happiness Chose

Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: some things are within your control and some things are not.  It is only after you have faced up to this fundamental role and learned to distinguish between what you can and can’t control that inner tranquility and outer effectiveness become possible”  Epictetus

I had a recent posting on “Choose Happiness, Not Control” and I cannot express how important this is.

You may think you have it bad, but here is a video that expresses the “Choose happiness, Not control” about Nick Vujicic.

I’m Having a Real Challenge to Stay Happy…

Here I am trying to tell all my readers how to be happy and I’m being put to the challenge today.     iStocklarge bolder 300x199 Im Having a Real Challenge to Stay Happy...

I know it is one of those days were I just want to feel sorry for myself.  Maybe have what I call a pity party.  I try to allow myself 10 minutes for a pity party then I better get over it, underneath it or around it.