I promised you the female answer to a post I did awhile back called, “What 9/11 Can Teach Us About Relationships and Happiness”  I am numbering these1, 2, 3, etc, because it is much easier in word. And besides I can count.

1.    1.   Learn to work the toilet seat.  Not a problem, but if I forget you have to realize we are going to be using more toilet paper do to the fact that it was in middle of the night and the bathroom was dark when I had to go.  Being half asleep I fell into the toilet, which then takes more paper to wipe of that cute butt of mine.  Sorry I woke you up when I said, “Oh Shit”.  Hey this is working for me if it working for you.

I dedicate this post to the men and women that lost their lives that day and hope we can learn by it and have more patience’s and tolerate the difference between men and women with love, compassion and respect and throwing in a little humor when necessary.

As I sat there reading the stories people had to tell about 9/11 in the newspaper this morning I was thinking what can we really learn from this to remember the people that lost their lives that day?

I know guys women can be a pain trying to understand what they want and where they are coming from.  As John Gray says in, “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”.   I have read this book and do understand how different men are from women.  Let me share a little of what I have learned when it comes to us frilly little ladies. (Sorry ladies; I thought that was a cute way to put that, so don’t take any offence).

In a relationship the needs a woman wants to receive are:

Every person that we know was a stranger at one time.  OK, other than relatives there just there when we are born. LOL

We have sensors that help us decide when we meet a stranger if it is someone that maybe would be a good possibility for a long term relationships.  Sometimes these sensors work fairly well, but sometimes we can miss those danger signs.   

You may consider yourself a good judge of character or you may not.  Either way here are 6 tips to consider when meeting that stranger that can turn into red flags flying high?