Archive for January, 2010

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This week has definitely been one of those weeks.  Sorry if you thought I was neglecting you, I really wasn’t.

My little 20 month old granddaughter was put in the hospital, because of this RSV going around.  Not really sure what this is, but she is one sick little girl.  Now today she is starting to run a fever again.  Wouldn’t be quite so bad, but she has  sisters 6 and 4 that obviously need taken care of while mom and dad are at the hospital.  At least I have been able to enjoy those two little ones even though they have been in school some of the time.

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If 2009 was about focusing on what we lost, 2010 should be about focusing on what we have.

Many families are finding new rewards when they change their priorities.  Take for example this family that Gimundo featured.  They sold their 6,500 house for a smaller house and gave the profits on the big house to charity.

Get what you need: In 2008 it was all about the big houses, fancy cars and dining out.  In 2009 the bottom fell out of the economy.  Some of you may think that my elevator got stuck, but is the change in the economy really a bad thing? People are now taking a second look at what is really important.

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help me They Laughed When I Sat Down at the Keyboard; Now I Need Your HELP!

'HELP ME WITH MY HEADING'

I wrote this blog post for this friend of mine, whom I dearly respect .  You can find the post right here, “How to Stay Young from the Inside Out? Stop Worrying.

I do not have a worry, but I do have a problem and as I stated in that post: problems are something to solve.

Here’s the problem; I am in the process of making some changes on my blog page and I need to figure out what kind of a heading I should put on it.  Here is what I have come up with:

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Happiness can be work

Kids clearly aren’t being raise like we were.

Are they going to have happiness within as adults?  Yes, when I was a teenage; drugs were arriving on the scene, but it obviously was not from our parent’s medicine cabinets.  You could still go to the drug store and get cold remedies over the counter without them having to check to see when the last time you were in to buy some of these remedies.

When we were youngGod bless the parents who drugged us.”, so we could be well adjusted and able to choose happiness.

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happiness and How to Take Command of Happiness WithinWhy do people have trouble finding the secret to happiness?

Here are 16 secrets to happiness.

Consciously practice these and you are going to find happiness within every single day of the year for the rest of your life.

  1. Learn to be a carefree person; worries have a way of working out.
  2. Always be friendly.
  3. Truly being you, what others think is just an opinion.
  4. Really be happy with yourself and accepted who you are.
  5. Remember socializing occasionally can be fun.
  6. Know that Criticism is clearly going to make you stronger.
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Make Happiness Happen!

Posted by: Debbie Bills | Comments (2)

Change your attitude to be more positive, and your mood will lift.  The other day I went to the store and it was really busy.  As I stood in line waiting for my turn I could tell how impatient people were getting.

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When my turn finally came the clerk looked at me and said, “How are you doing?”
I looked at her and replied, “I think better then you are doing, how much long until you get to go home?”  She looked at me and said, “Just a couple of hours.”  I replied with, “Good.”

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Clutter can mess up your happiness within.   I don’t know about you, but if my house gets to messy, really I am not a happy person until I do something about it.  How about you?  With everyone living a busy life this can be very hard to keep up with sometimes.  In my Free e-book I go over this problem.

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Let's get happy with organiation

It is very important. The space around you obviously is a good indication of what is happening inside of you. If the space around you is cluttered it is a fair bet that your mind is cluttered, too.

To start with, is it apparently clear you have too much stuff? Is there stuff in ever empty space you have? If you have ever corner and shelf in your house full of stuff you probably have too much stuff.

Here are 4 questions to ask yourself about an item you don’t know what to do with.

1. Have I really used this item recently?

2. Does this item help me in any way or for my goals in life?

3. Do I really need to own this item?

4. Does it serve a purpose in my life anymore?

If the answer is no, to all four questions, it is definitely time to let it move on for a higher purpose. It is just taking up space in your house.

Clutter in your home is always right there in your face, it certainly can make you feel closed in. The thicker your clutter is, the less efficiently you can do anything. It gets in your way. Remember you would rather live in the world then accumulate part of the world. The less clutter you have I will guarantee the happier you will be. You can focus more clearly on what matters.

“Clutter keeps us from living the lives we want.” says Peter Walsh.

Here are five tips that can help with your clutter:

1.Double bag it: Take 10 minutes before dinner every night.  Give every member of your family 2 trash bags, one for trash and one for charity.  Now go to ever room and start picking up and placing them in the bags.

2. Get rid of the gadgets not used: Dump the contents of the junk draws in a box.  Each time you use an item, put it back into the draw.  After one month you’ll see which items you don’t use and you can disregard them.

3. Rule of Thumb: Get one, give one.  When you buy a new book, give one a away. New purse, give one away and the list goes on.

4. Clean out the closet: Hang your clothes with hangers facing one way.  After you wear and item, replace it with the hanger facing the other direction. This will help remind you of what clothes you don’t wear and can give to charity.

5. You don’t need the object, you have the memory: Let’s face it we all keep things because of memories.   Remember those flowers from prom 30 years ago.    You really don’t need that mess.  For the ones that you really want to keep, find a chest to put them in.  By doing this you have all your memories organized and in one place.

Now isn’t it time to De-junk and get happy?  You are honestly going to love the way it makes you feel!

Debbie Dee

P.S. For more secrets to happiness download my free e-book now.

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I just don’t understand why people aren’t happy?  I watched the news last night and see the poor people in Haiti and what they are going through and I can’t help but be so grateful for what I have and where I live.

Sorry, but I have to asked you people out there; “What is your real problem if you are not happy?” Give me some feed back and let me see if I can help.  How would you feel if everything you had was destroyed and you lost many of your loved ones?  Think about it and tell me how blessed you are.  I know I am so blessed my seams are about to burst and it feels absolutely wonderful.

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Life isn’t fair: Most people that I talk to agree with this statement and I really agree with it too.  Life isn’t fair.   Most of us struggle all our lives and then what happens?  We die!  So what it comes down to; life is the pits and then we die!

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This is Happiness Within

We all have problems, some small; some obviously can be over powering at times.  We work hard to achieve something, and it seems that everyone conspires against us taking away our dreams and hard work.  Does this sound familiar? When we get one crisis taken care of there is another one waiting for us.

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I have always believed that one of the BIG SECRETS to happiness within is humor.  I received this email from a friend and it is obviously to me that humor has a lot to do with happiness within.

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Don't forget to laugh

I would clearly like you to take note of your emotions right this minute.  Are you having just one of those days?    Just another day like all the rest.  Same old thing.

Now I need you to read this, written by Mary Whelan, and tell me how you feel after you have read it.

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