I really have to laugh when I see and hear people that say they want nothing more than to be happy.  Then they sit there and do nothing about it. Your children are watching you and will learn by your behavior. Learn to go out and Dance in the Rain Get out of your comfort zone or box and choose happiness. Take a little time right now and enjoy this 3 minute movie and then come back and read the rest of this post. Click here; Learn to Dance in the Rain.

Now are you ready:
It is very true that every one wants to be happy, but when it comes down to making the changes we need for happiness it just goes out the window with the wind.  They like there familiar pattern that allows them to feel comfortable, even though it is leading them into more anguish or suffering.

Haven’t you ever felt like your four walls are closing in on you?  It is the same thing day after day.  As the old saying goes, “Same stuff just a different day.”  Will get off your duff and do something different or keep your mouth shut.  Choose to be happy, whatever makes you happy do it.

I’ve kind of been finding myself in that situation lately, but the different is that I see it and know I have the power to choose happiness.  I can change.  Five days a week I sit in the house at my computer putting all the information I have in this head of mine down on paper.  Don’t get me wrong I enjoy teaching and learning, but the same every day can get old.  You have to refresh yourself just like sometimes you have refresh your computer.

I’m not one that really likes doing things alone, but I’m learning.  You see my other half (husband) works outside the home 5 days a week and he really isn’t much for doing things on the weekends.  Oh, maybe going out to eat, but that again can get old even though it is nice.   I’m learning to do things by myself and having fun with this new adventure.

Whether it is going for a walk around the lake, taking a drive, visiting a friend or even going to the mall when I don’t need anything!  I really like that, because then I can walk around smiling at people and learn there responses to a smile.

Another example of this is take single man or woman who wants to be married.  Has what it takes to be a wonderful spouse, but doesn’t do anything about it.  They hear all the horror stories about dating so they put little effort into finding someone.  They are not choosing to be happy.  It would require them to get the heck out of their comfort zone or box to find whatever makes them happy.  They get use to the stressful life they lead, working long hours and have know energy left for some relaxing fun and happiness.

When you get stuck there are things you need to do to get unstuck. Take out a piece of paper and ask yourself what new outcome you’d like to see.  Be specific about what you are look for or wanting when you have the positive outcome.  When you get the positive emotions moving, it is much easier to think about new behavior and do something about your situation.  Don’t be afraid to venture out.  Live like you were dying. Choose to be happy and do whatever makes you happy.  Don’t ever let the small stuff stop you. Go Learn to Dance in the Rain. Don’t wait until tomorrow, it may not be there.

Did I miss anything?  Please leave those comments, I am always will to learn, so give your input.

Thank You
Debbie Dee