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Yes, I am certainly a real person and apparently I have my days just like the rest of you out there in cyber space. That is why I find reading motivation or positive books (little or big) help me keep my attitude in line. Some days you have dig out the positive stuff more than others, but it instantly helps me. If you can find the Love you can find the right attitude. Sometimes we have to find the help that works. You Are love clearly shows me the way at times. Just click on the link You Are Love and see if it can help with daily situations.
Here is what is going on. Now I really understand that when it comes to guys and gals they are very different in there thinking. Guys for example when they fall in love they put what I call all their eggs in one basket. Gals on the other hand have their eggs scattered around. What I mean is gals love there man, their children, friends, family and the world sometimes. Guys on the other hand make the love of their life there life. And this is ok, but sometimes it makes things a little bit harder for the gal.
Don’t get me wrong here guys, I know you love your children, family and friends, but your world really just revolves around your wife or partner (providing that she is really nice and not some kind of witch should I say). Don’t you agree?
Now when you have a blended family like I have it can get a little stickier. Here’s the deal. I have to go over tonight and take care of 3 little grandkids, because mom is out of town and dad has to work in the morning. Good old hubby has tried to find all these things that need to be done right now. Not the next day or day after, but right now. I believe this would be called a little bit on the jealous side.
This is where the choosing to be happy comes in. I can understand where he is coming from do to the fact that all his eggs are in the one basket. Maybe I don’t make him feel as secure as I should or maybe it is just him being a little jealous of those grandkids getting more of my attention then he does at times.
Whatever the answer I shall do what I have to do and go over and help out with the grandkids, because this does make me happy within. Gals always like to help and be needed, that’s the way we are made. As for hubby spending the night by himself, I am lucky enough to have a husband that does think about things, so I’ll let him think about the situation and then we can certainly talk about it later.
The sad part about this situation that we have to clearly get through to each other and figure this out! If it is jealousy, his actions can drive me away from him, not toward him. I understand his eggs, but he has to understand where my eggs are and I would never put him second on my list. You know the old saying: “There’s no place like home” At times I have other things to do, but it is always nice to home with him. Obviously I may not being making myself clear on this point.
Whatever your situation is you have to have the right attitude, listen to others and try to understand both sides to find that wonderful thing called happiness within. Now I shall go read You Are Love, so I can always CHOOSE HAPPINESS for myself.
I certainly would like to know if I am of any help to you in finding and keep your happiness within, please leave your comment. They are certainly appreciated.
Debbie Dee
