Maybe there are a few out there that don’t really care how important this is, so if you are one of those just hit the back button and move on.
For those of you that have been wondering how important sex is in a marriage let me enlighten you.
For 13 years I pretty much lived in a sexless marriage. There was sex, but it was wham bang thank you. It was an act, not making love, because there really was not any interaction between us.
With this marriage there was No communication, trying to talk to him about my need got me know where. Yes, that is one BIG reason that I moved on. My hubby now, had the same problem with his marriage, NO SEX LIFE.
Life is full now; we laugh about the past and enjoy having a sex life together.
Sex is a very important part of any marriage; it bonds 2 people together in a personal intimate way.
From talking to people and doing some research I have found many men complain that they have no sex life. Ladies this will kill your marriage sooner or later.
Here are 5 reasons that get in the way of “Making Love” and having sex on the bottom of your priority list:
1. Life is busy:
By the end of the day I’m tired from taking care of kids, cleaning the house, having to work a job, let alone having to cooking, but if you want to keep that hubby of yours you need to make, making love a priority.
2. It isn’t any fun:
Talk to each other and fine out the real reason it doesn’t seem fun. A good book I recommend is, “Lovemaking Resource”. There is nothing vulgar or in bad taste, just great tips for getting you in the right mood and looking forward to love making.
3. I don’t like Sex:
Either someone has given you the wrong idea about sex and making love or you have a medical problem. Sex is not just for pro creating. If that was the case we would have been given an on and off button.
4. I am embarrassed and don’t like the way my body looks:
Nobody has a perfect body, not even the man you are making love too. It has nothing to do with the way your body looks, but how your body response to his/her love making. If nothing else, turn off the damn lights.
5. It just doesn’t feel good:
If this is the problem you are not telling your man what does feel good. If you don’t know what turns you on, do a little investigating on your own and get to know your body and what makes it respond and turns you on. There is nothing dirty about getting to know yourself and your body. It is part of getting to know the true you. If it is painful than you need to talk to your Doctor.
Sex is a subject that needs communication just like all things that involve marriage and great relationships. It is part of the puzzle!
Don’t disregard this important piece of the puzzle, it will destroy what you thought was a great marriage. Marriage without little sex or no sex is a relationship that turns into a “Living Arrangement.”
So what is your excuse for not having a love life? Where you taught that you don’t talk about sex? Well get over it and get that communication going. You have no idea what you are really missing. You know the old saying, “Use it or lose it.”
If that isn’t enough to get you going, jump on the band wagon when it comes to exercise. Sex is a great way to get a GOOD work out.
Your PC will still be there when you get done having some REAL fun, so move it baby! Good Sex gets that blood flowing and gives your heart a good workout!