The Signs of a Happily Married Couple

happy couple 2  The Signs of a Happily Married CoupleHave you ever watched two people really in love?  If you look closely you are going to see the love just flow between the two.

Here are the signs of a happy relationship and marriage.

The way they look at each other.  You can see in there eye’s the love between them.

They are having fun.  It doesn’t matter what they are doing, even in the super market you will find them having fun.  Smiles and laughter.

Holding hands.  Whether they are taking a walk or running errors they will be holding hands and smiling.

Show respect for each other.  When at social events or out with others you will never hear them put down one another.

They are good listeners.  When one is talking; the other is focusing on what is being said, never interrupting.

They look into each other’s eyes.  They enjoy looking at each other and their eyes just show it when they connect.  You can see the sparkle in the eyes.

You can see the trust they have in one another.  If one is going out with the girls/guys for the evening this is wonderful.  They like seeing each other enjoy themselves.

You can tell they both have a good and health self-esteem.  It is in their confidence about their relationship.  They never feel threatened.

Their home is full of warmth and love.  When visiting their home you can feel the love and people are always welcome.

The secret to their happiness comes down to love.  They love themselves and are very secure in their own skin.  They do not try to impress others with material things in life.  What you see is what you get.

I am making this short, so you can get off the computer and go do some people watching and come back and let me know if you found the happy couple.  Remember to look for couples that look like they are on an adventure.  A happy couple is always on an adventure.  Even when they are changing a flat tire, or working in the yard life is always fun and they love it.




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  1. Good points. You do have to be happy with yourself in order to love.
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  2. Nancy Shields

    Great post my girlfriend Debbie!

    So true the points you bring out. I love when I see couples looking at each other with such intensity in their eyes that you can feel the love. I am so happy to say, that I am one of those…..

    Thanks for the tips my friend and you have some good ones!

    enJOY the love!
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    • Hi Nancy,

      I am so happy for you Nancy. I do know what you are feeling and how wonderful it is to find LOVE. Right now hubbies work has taken him out of town a lot and it really makes you appreciate what love is and being loved. Absents does make the heart appreciate more, but hey I just want him home to stay. LOL
      thank you for sharing girlfriend and blessing to you always,

  3. Hi Debbie,

    You made some great points for any relationship. I have a friend who has been married for a long time and they laugh all the time and clearly have fun together. It’s nice to watch. Love is definitely the bottom line. Thanks for sharing!
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    • Hi Cathy,

      You are very welcome. It is wonderful to watch two people in love. They do do a lot of laughing together. Thank you for sharing about your friends.
      Blessing always,

  4. Are yes, those were the days…..
    Thank you Debbie,
    be good to yourself
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    • Hi David,

      You say, ‘Those were the days.” Are you still looking for the love you deserve? If so keep your heart open and love will find you.
      You take good care of you and blessing always,

  5. Hi Debbie,

    I think when i fell in love with my wife, I had all these great qualities that you mentioned. I especially enjoyed holding hands and looking deep into her eyes and having fun in anything we did together.

    Things might have scaled down a bit but I am working at things to relive those wonderful moments and love again.

    Thanks for this great reminder and it was short and effective.
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    • Hi Jimmy,

      Thank you for sharing. Just to keep you on track with the sweet lady, remember to kiss her every day and let those kisses last for at least 7 seconds. And always laugh with each other every day.

      Hope that helps keep that wonderful love alive. It needs watering just like a plant
      Blessing to you and thank you again for the comment.

  6. Hi Debbie,

    What a great list! Respect is a big one. Without respect, the relationship will deteriorate and couples will start arguing. Lack of respect is a major cause of separation, so we have to make sure that we respect each other all the time even if we disagree with our partner’s opinions. Thanks for sharing myf riend
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    • Hi Dia,

      I totally agree with you Dia. We do have to have respect for each other to make the relationship work and last. Thank you for sharing this. Sometimes when we do disagree we can learn from each other.
      Thanks again and blessing to you.

  7. Chris Williams says:

    That’s an excellent summary, Debbie – it basically comes down to confidence and full trust in the other – the building blocks of love.

    I think the statement that “finding a partner whom you love and with whom you are compatible is the
    prescription for a healthy, lasting relationship” is very true. But, if you’ve already broken up or if you’re thinking about getting into a rebound relationship, there are things that can be done that make it possible to rebuild the relationship you had with your ex.
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    • Hi Chris,

      Thank you Chris. Yes, you do have to be compatible and have a common ground. After a break up the last thing you should do is get into a rebound relationship. To start with you are in a new relationship only to try to forget the one you lost. Not Good!!!

      Yes, many times there are things you can do to repair a broken relationship and it usually start with some soul searching and understanding of them and yourself.\

      Thank you for sharing and may you always be blessed.

  8. I love your assignment this week, Debbie. We can intellectualize until the cows come home, but the real thing is often those intangibles we must see and thus feel first hand. We can learn so much from simply stopping, listening and becoming keenly aware of traits and attributes in others. When we can see it in others, we can see it in ourselves. This empowers us to more readily express love in our own lives.
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    • Hi rob,

      Thank you very much rob. I have to admit that I like talking about the positive side of relationships more that negative. There is some much love out there that if we just opened our eyes we would see it and feel it. Most of all it would be found.
      thank you for sharing and adding to the post.
      Blessing always,

  9. Hello Debbie
    How are you?
    Thanks for sharing this article because it’s our anniversary in 11 days.
    It’s not been a completely smooth ride. There’ve been bumps, potholes, skids….. but in all I still love my wife and she is absolutely the best.
    I might start couple watching lol!! in the supermarket or park.
    Take care and have a lovely day.
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    • Hi Ayo,

      Good to hear from you and see that smiling face. Happy Anniversary here real soon. Hey, with out all those bumps, potholes and skids one wouldn’t know how wonderful the marriage is. They just make a couple stronger. Sounds like the two of you have just learned to skid with them.

      I am doing great and thanks for asking.
      Blessing to you and wishing you lots of happiness.

  10. With so many couples breaking up within a few years of marriage it would be good for the younger generation to make note of what a successful marriage looks like and then try to emulate it as best as possible.

    • I agree with you Susan. When you see or learn something is working for others you have nothing to lose by trying it.
      thank you for sharing and blessing to you.

  11. that’s so true debbie
    i am not married yet but i can tell you are right from my experience in relationships :)
    thanks for the post

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