When we make the decision to marry, many people like to believe they are marrying their best friend. And to me we should be! Best friends are people that we trust, respect and can share anything with and not be judged for how or what we are in any way.
Here are 8 tips for finding that best friend to marry and spend the rest of your life with.
Your back ground is similar. Your family back ground is similar. You where raise with similar morals and beliefs. You think alike, but at the same time you can accept any differences.
By looking in their eyes you can see who they are. Eyes tell a lot when we really look at them. When you are with the right person you can see things in their eyes that know on else sees. When I was dating my hubby, he came across as strong, handle anything (which he can), but what I saw was a big teddy bear.
Communication comes easy. You can be open and honestly about all things. They know you and you confide in them like you have with no other person. You know each other’s true self. They are easy to talk to and a good listener.
You have a spiritual connection. Your beliefs in God or a higher being are the same.
You feel excitement when you are with this person. When you are with each other you feel fulfilled. You are excited to see them and enjoy the time you have together.
There is a physical attraction. What more can I say other than you can’t keep your hands of each other, but at the same time you respect any limits that may be placed for the early stages of dating.
You see the faults in this person. You are not looking through rose colored glass and can see thing that you consider faults, but this is ok. You can except them and love them anyway.
You see no need to change this person. You like them just the way they are. You are not trying or wanting to change this person in anyway. You can smile at the faults you see and see no reason to change this in them.
These are just 8 tips to get you started on the right track when getting to know someone. Print the list out if you are single and looking for that love of a life time.
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Ok, get off your computer and go out there and have some fun, finding that special someone, or just enjoying that special person that you do have in your life. Life is fun and sharing it with others is even more fun.
If you do have a second I would appreciate a comment before you go have that fun. Thank you many bunches.