When it comes to the choice of happiness it is amazing what good self-esteem can do for you.
Here is a story about a young man that was picking up starfish that illustrates how important you really are.
This elder man was walking along the beach when he noticed a young gentlemen picking up starfish and throwing them back in the ocean. The elderly man asks, “What are you doing?” The young gentlemen looked at him and said, “The starfish would die if I left them here in the sand.” The elderly man then said, “There is no way you’ll get to all the starfish and make a difference, because there are too many.” The young man said as he was throwing one back, “I made a difference to that one.”
Everyone one of us does make a difference in this world. It is not important if you touch one life or hundreds of lives. It is just important that you are here.
How you care about yourself is linked to health, career, communicating with others and to your happiness. Have you ever wanted to change something in your life? Maybe your career, living situation or even relationships! Somehow you just never get this done, because everything gets in your way?
The real problem here maybe that you don’t believe you are worth making the change, that you don’t deserve to be fulfilled and have that happy in life. In order to transform your life, you need to know that you deserve a better life. That you are worth much more! I found this out and so can you.
Look at your life right now and what needs attention? It is important that you are willing to love yourself enough to make the changes needed.
Here are a few tips to help:
- 1. Love yourself
- 2. Forgive Yourself
- 3. Believe in Yourself
- 4. Change your perception
- 5. What is standing in your way?
Life is the way you see yourself. It is time you see yourself in a new perspective, so you can find all that happiness you deserve. Put the skeptical part aside and look at all the possibilities just waiting for you. Go get the good self-esteem you deserve.
I just really have a problem when it comes to getting a book and they want you to do all these different exercises. I have written a book on self-esteem the easy way. You can pick up the book with this link. “Take Command of Your Self-esteem” or if you want to test drive it first click on the link “Stop Being a Donut and Enjoy Life” and check out four chapters of the book.
To your happiness and good self-esteem,
Debbie
This is a great article. I’m always looking for smart resources to share with my coworkers, and your article is definitely worth sharing!
Thank you very much. I hope your coworkers enjoy it as much as you. Thanks again and my you be blessed with happiness.
Debbie
Hi Debbie,
One thing for me stands out in this. And its point 2, forgive yourself. I find that loving or approving of your self can be tricky but it can be done. but it can be really hard to forgive yourself…
Thanks for sharing Debbie
Hi Billy,
Forgiving yourself is like letting go of the past. When my mother was alive and at the end of her life there were things that I wish I had done differently, but after a while I realized that I did my best and thinking about it wasn’t going to change anything. I learned by it, and forgave myself for what I thought I may have done wrong. Yes, you are right sometimes it can be tricky, but that is when we have to realize that we are doing more harm if we hold onto it rather then forgive ourselves.
Thanks Billy for your input and you have a wonderful happy day.
Debbie
I have been motivating myself after my struggles a few years ago, and your site has helped me a lot to build my confidence back up. Thank you so much.
Hi Angelic
You are welcome. Glad I could help. What part helps the most?
Debbie