Battling With Your Happiness, Get Empowered!

choose happiness and be empowered

Susan Liddy recorded a video and it really makes a lot of sense.  She says, “I discovered that the best thing we can do for our children is to empower our mothers.”

This is so true.  My mother didn’t have a good self-esteem which left her under empowered to teach her children.  Let’s face it children need both parents, but the mother spends more time with the children and has a big influence on them.

I realize ladies that this is a BIG responsibility, but when we have children we are in it for life.  They look up to us.  They learn from us and usually they don’t miss anything we say or do.

As Susan says, “It’s easy to get caught up in the fact we want to feel happy and fulfilled… But, have you ever considered that your happiness and fulfillment is a RESPONSIBILITY?  How you live impacts others…especially children.”

“There are two ways of spreading Light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.” By Edith Warton

The other night I was watching the news and they were showing a video of two girls fighting.  Would you believe that there was one mother watching and she was cheering her daughter on!   What are you teaching your child with behavior like this?  Is she learning love, compassion and how to build relationships?  Not so much!

Don’t you want to teach your children how to be loving, kind, giving, so they can build on a strong foundation? For this to happen they need to see you as a strong empowered, loving caring person.  They need to know that you have good self-esteem and are empowered, so when life throws you a curve you know how to handle it.

Learning to empower yourself means that you have chosen happiness within.

Wouldn’t it be nice to know that when your child does something unexpectedly, like picking on a sibling, talking back to you, even a little thing like spilling his or her juice or milk that you wouldn’t react with anger?  Then afterward say to yourself, “Why did I react that way?’

By empowering yourself and having that good self-esteem you won’t have to worry anymore about your reactions.  When I started this blog I promised that if I didn’t have all the answers for you I would find someone that did have the right answers.  Susan Liddy is a Life coach in empowering women with the right tools to make the right choices, you can check out her free videos with this link, “Passages to Empowerment.”

I have done a new Free guide on “Take command of your Self-Esteem” that you might want to checkout to help with your “Passages to Empowerment.” Between the two of them you can make some good choices and have your happiness within, which in turn will give your children a powerful start in life.

When raising my daughter I always felt like they were a gift that was just on loan to me from my maker.  He trusted me to raise and give them all the love and tools they would need to shine in his world.  That is why I am sharing these empowering videos with you.  I don’t want any one left behind when it comes to raising our children and empowering them for the best life and happiness within they deserve.

When someone bullies your child don’t you want them to know how to handle it through your example?

Love to know if this post is a help to you, please leave your comments in the comment box.

To your children’s happiness and yours,
Debbie