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Choose Happiness and Stay Positive

Sometimes, when life has thrown you some curve balls and you’re plugging your way through difficulties, it can seem almost impossible to keep smiling and staying happy. There are some people who always seem to stay positive, regardless of what seems to be going on in their life. How do they do it? I’ve pulled together some ideas for keeping your head when everything seems to be falling apart, so you can always choose happiness!

Remember that things always change

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Embrace Change with Happiness

There’s a great quote out there by Susan Jeffers, who writes inspirational self-help books. The title of one of her bestsellers is ‘Feel the fear and do it anyway’. Sometimes when things get tough, I think of this phrase. It can be used so often to help us embrace change, and not be afraid of making alterations in our lives that can help us choose to be happy.

Change can be frightening. The thought of swapping something we know and understand for unknown territory rightly fills most people with dread. The thing is, change can be the best catalyst for moving forward and achieving our dreams and finding happiness within.

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Choose Happiness; You are Special

You want to choose happiness, stop comparing your life with someone else.  We are all unique in our own way.  To find your happiness you have to like who you are.  As John Mason put it, “You were born an original.  Don’t die a copy.”

When you were made you were made unique and by comparing yourself to someone else you are insulting your maker.  You take away your purpose from this world.  Ever individual is made so they can contribute to the world and touch the lives they were meant to, while here on this earth.

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Choose Happiness with Good Self-Esteem

Esteem is a very simple word.  It is worth and value that we apply to people, places, and situations.  It is the amount of respect we assess.  We have esteem for places like church and synagogue.  We have esteem for an exemplary performance whether it is in sports, or simply doing the right thing.

The most important place we need to apply esteem is within ourselves.  We must maintain our self-esteem, so we place value on ourselves as a worthy individual in the world.  Self-esteem affects every single part of our lives.  If that esteem is low, we can feel like our life isn’t worthy.    Elevating esteem for ourselves is the key to happiness in life.

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DO IT YOUR WAY

happiness your way Whatever Makes You Happy, Not What Makes Society Happy!

Choose Happiness Your Way

You have to love the entire hype when it comes to happiness.  I really want to apologize for some of my blog post. There is one thing that I forgot to tell you about myself.  I have always had a little rebel in me! Now you know.

If you want to be happy you have to eat right, exercise, take your pills that are going to make you younger and live longer. The April issue of Reader’s Digest says on the front cover reads; “The Vitamin Scam.”  It talks about how we are being ripped off when told we need these extra vitamins.

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Unhappiness and pain, both mental and physical can clearly stem from a lack of balance and harmony in your life.  When we choose happiness for our life it should consist of spiritual, relationships, work, play and learning.

1.Spiritual: When I talk about spiritual, get in touch with your maker.  Some people are believers and others aren’t.  I can’t even comprehend how one can be happy without believing.  In one of my lowest times I will always remember the hand of God reaching out and touch me on the shoulder.  Take time   to pray, really appreciate nature and read uplifting books.  You have free will, but that doesn’t mean a higher power isn’t there to guide you.  It is called the sixth sense or inner guidance .  Learn how to get in touch with it through mediation.  This certainly can help you find that happiness within and hold onto it.

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Conflict with siblings is virtually inevitable. We have to remember that conflict isn’t the problem, but how we handle it.  Obviously if we handle

communciation2 Love Your Siblings Unconditional and Choose Happiness

Choose Happiness and Communicate

conflict wrong it can tear people apart; on the other hand if handled in a loving way it brings us closer together and bring happiness within..

Next time you are dealing with conflict from a sibling or even parents keeps these tips in mind.  Disagreements followed by poor communication skills can be a source of anger and distance.  When we learn good communication skills those disagreements can be a springboard to a stronger relationship and happier future.

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Do you ever sit around and whine about everything wrong in your life.  This

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Choose Happiness and Lose the Whining

house is a mess, the kids wouldn’t behave today; I especially hate my life today.  Let’s face it whiners are not happy people.  To be happy you can easily figure out why you are whining and make a choice to fix it.

Write it down

Let’s get busy and get rid of this unhappiness.  Go get a pen and paper and start writing things down?

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Personally this can be hard to do sometimes. With work it can be don’t.

When you have regrets from the past you clearly have to take a look at them and see the positive side of where they have lead you.

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Choose Happiness , not Regrets

Obviously most people look at failure as mistakes.  Guys get over this failure thing; failures are learning experience not mistakes.  I cannot even began to tell you how make time I have messed up trying to build my website and blogging business.

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empowered4 Battling With Your Happiness, Get Empowered!

choose happiness and be empowered

Susan Liddy recorded a video and it really makes a lot of sense.  She says, “I discovered that the best thing we can do for our children is to empower our mothers.”

This is so true.  My mother didn’t have a good self-esteem which left her under empowered to teach her children.  Let’s face it children need both parents, but the mother spends more time with the children and has a big influence on them.

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