Yes, I am certainly a real person and apparently I have my days just like the rest of you out there in cyber space. That is why I find reading motivation or positive books (little or big) help me keep my attitude in line. Some days you have dig out the positive stuff more than others, but it instantly helps me. If you can find the Love you can find the right attitude. Sometimes we have to find the help that works. You Are love clearly shows me the way at times. Just click on the link You Are Love and see if it can help with daily situations.
Whatever Makes You Happy, But what do you do when you’re in a Rut?
September 29, 2009 by Leave a Comment
I really have to laugh when I see and hear people that say they want nothing more than to be happy. Then they sit there and do nothing about it. Your children are watching you and will learn by your behavior. Learn to go out and Dance in the Rain Get out of your comfort zone or box and choose happiness. Take a little time right now and enjoy this 3 minute movie and then come back and read the rest of this post. Click here; Learn to Dance in the Rain.
Simple Secrets to Happiness
September 28, 2009 by 3 Comments
Simple Secrets to Happiness
Life can be complicated, but happiness is… simple. We try our best to make it complicated. Here is a short story and movie, that I would like to share with you. In this movie you are going to find the Simple secrets to a happy life. Click on this link, to watch Finding Joy and then learn how to put in the BIG ROCKS first. Maybe it will help to simplify the complicated.
Put In the Big Rocks First
Raising Happy Children; Learn the Secret
September 24, 2009 by 4 Comments
Are we making these mistakes with our children?
Are we hiding them in a bubble? Over protecting them? Holding back there Happiness?
There immune systems are failing, because we protect them from germs. When you were a kid didn’t you drink out of a garden hose and run through the hose on a hot summer day? We shared one soft drink with four friends, not from one bottle and no one actually died from this. We didn’t have Play Stations, Nintendo’s, X-Boxes, no video games, not 150 channels on cable, no DVD’s, no cell phones or personal computers and no internet or chat rooms. We were happy and it wasn’t costing our parents and arm and leg to keep us happy.
Does Money Buy Happiness? Is That What Everyone Thinks?
September 22, 2009 by 2 Comments
This is true Happiness and I shall explain!
Happiness Within
In these hard times I am getting the impression that everybody thinks money is going to make them happy. What the heck are you people thinking? Money can help you live more comfortable, but it isn’t going to make you happy. Happiness is within you.
Money is just a tool like anything else that is material. Did you ever stop to think that maybe when you get money that you don’t use it right and that is why you don’t have any? At least it gives you an excuse to be unhappy. When we are unhappy we always have to have something to blame it on.
Secret to happiness! What Kids Can Teach us!
September 21, 2009 by Leave a Comment
As a parent, I found that kids don’t want “Quality time” with you. They want “quantity.” If they could get it they want all your time. They need interaction and communication, but just your presence there in the house means the world to them. Just ask your kids if they would like to go to Disneyland for a week or have you around every day and night?
I did a survey on fourth graders to see what makes them happy. Here are the answers that I received:
Happy is: seeing my dad, seeing my mom, family reunions, seeing my cousins, seeing my uncles and aunts, my friends ,eating food, oxygen, singing, riding my bike, running, seeing my sister smile, when I get to play, good night sleep.
Who Are The Happy People and Why?
September 18, 2009 by 2 Comments
I am seeing that people really want to know why some people are happy and others aren’t.
I truly believe the answer to that question has a lot to do with ones belief in God. I am not one that goes around professing to be a Christian, but I do know in my heart there is God and there is our Savior Jesus and because of my baptism I do have the Holy Spirit in me. I was brought up in a Christian house hold, which I am very grateful for. I do belong to the church that I was raised in; however I do not go to church every Sunday. Maybe I should, because I do know that it does make your faith stronger. The last time I was in a church was when my last grandchild was baptized. That would be 14 months ago. I’m bad.
People are Not Happy Because? What is your excuse?
September 17, 2009 by 4 Comments
I did an article a while back on “Why some people are not Happy and other people very happy.”
In that article I was trying to point out that money really isn’t the answer to happiness. I do know that yes, in some ways it sure can help. Hey, I’m not that dumb, but it sure isn’t what makes one happy day after day, week after week and year after year.
When we have a problem what is the first things we have to figure out?
1.Where the problem is coming from? 
2.Why we have this problem.
The Happiness Chose
September 16, 2009 by 2 Comments
“Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: some things are within your control and some things are not. It is only after you have faced up to this fundamental role and learned to distinguish between what you can and can’t control that inner tranquility and outer effectiveness become possible” Epictetus
I had a recent posting on “Choose Happiness, Not Control” and I cannot express how important this is.
You may think you have it bad, but here is a video that expresses the “Choose happiness, Not control” about Nick Vujicic.
Happiness Within Brings Peace and Health
September 15, 2009 by Leave a Comment
Happiness affects so many different areas in our lives, that is why it is very important to find this middle ground called happiness.
Let’s talk first about the peace you can find with happiness and how we can get there. 
Peace in the Wikipedia encyclopedia state: Peace (symbol: ?) is a term that most commonly refers to an absence of hostility, but which also represents a larger concept wherein there are healthy or newly-healed interpersonal or international relationships, safety in matters of social or economic welfare, the acknowledgment of equality and fairness in political relationships and, in world matters, peacetime; a state of being absent of any war or conflict. Reflection on the nature of peace is also bound up with considerations of the causes for its absence or loss. Among these potential causes are: insecurity, social injustice,economic inequality,political and religious radicalism, and acute nationalism.
